So you’ve decided to propose. First of all — congratulations. That decision is the hard part. Everything after this is just planning the kind of moment the two of you will retell for the rest of your lives.
If you want that moment to feel like something out of a film — a glowing heart of flowers, a “Marry Me” sign lighting up the room, candles everywhere — here’s exactly how to pull it off, step by step.
What actually makes a “heart proposal” special
A heart proposal is built around a large, heart-shaped floral arch. It’s the centerpiece everyone pictures: lush roses formed into a heart, framed by candles, with a neon or marquee “Marry Me” sign at the center. The magic isn’t just the flowers — it’s that the whole scene is ready and waiting. You walk your partner in, and the moment is already perfect.
Step 1: Pick the moment before the place
Couples often start with “where,” but start with “when.” An anniversary, a birthday, a holiday weekend, or a time your families are in town all make great anchors. Evening setups with candles glowing tend to feel the most magical.
Step 2: Choose your venue
Here’s something we tell every couple: in Chicago, the venue can make or break the moment. We lean toward indoor settings — steakhouses, a private room in a high-rise like LondonHouse, ballrooms and rooftop lounges — because they give us full control over privacy, lighting and that jaw-drop wow factor, with none of the parking, permit or crowd headaches. If you have your heart set on outdoors, our go-to is North Avenue Beach for the skyline view without the chaos. We gently steer couples away from packed spots like Navy Pier or the Adler, where crowds and parking can quietly sabotage the surprise.
Not sure where to start? We break down our favorites in our guide to the most romantic places to propose in Chicago and our indoor proposal ideas.
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We design luxury heart-shaped floral arch setups with a glowing “Marry Me” sign, candles and rose petals — so all you have to do is get down on one knee. Packages from $500.
See Proposal Packages →Step 3: Design the setup
This is where it goes from “nice” to “unforgettable.” A complete heart proposal usually includes the floral heart arch, the “Marry Me” sign, candles and rose petals — and you can add candelabras, a red carpet aisle, floral pedestals, or a bouquet for the reveal. Our proposal packages range from a clean, classic setup to a full luxury scene.
Step 4: Handle the logistics (so you don’t have to think about them)
- Timing the surprise. We arrive early, build everything, and have it glowing before you bring your partner in.
- Photography. Hire a photographer (or ask us — we work with great local ones). You’ll want these photos forever.
- A cover story. Keep it simple: dinner reservations, drinks at a rooftop lounge, a “friend’s place.” The less detail, the less suspicion.
Step 5: The ring, and the words
Have the ring on you (not in a bag you might set down). And don’t over-script — a few honest sentences about why you love them beats a memorized monologue every time. Then breathe, and ask.
Why couples choose OMG Events Chicago
Romantic proposals are the heart of what we do. Couples from all over the country fly into Chicago and trust us to design the moment so they can simply be present for it. From the first message to the last candle, we sweat the details so you don’t have to.
Let’s create your perfect moment
Tell us your date and your vision — we’ll handle every detail, from the venue to the last candle. Couples fly in from across the country to propose in Chicago with us.
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